Parents who take you to church, they will not get it in jail! ...

Parents who take you to church, they will not get it 

in jail! ... 

Lecture by psychiatrist Dr. Içami Tiba, 

in Curitiba, 23/07/2008. 

The speaker is elected member of the Board of Directors of the International Association 

of Group Psychotherapy. Adviser to the National Institute of Training and Education 

Working for the "Access Route". Professor of courses and workshops in Brazil and 

Exterior. In a survey conducted in March 2004, IBOPE among psychologists 

Federal Council of Psychology, respondents put Dr. as Içami Tiba 

third author of reference and admiration - the first national. 

1 - place: Sigmund Freud; 

2 - place: Gustav Jung; 

3 - place: Içami Tiba. 

1. Education can not be delegated to the school. Student is transient. Son is to 

ever. 

2. The room is no place for children to meet punishment. You can not punish him with 

internet, sound, tv, etc ... 

3. Educating means to punish the conduct derived from an erroneous behavior.Burned 

Indian pataxó, the sentence (convicted) should be spending all day in hospital 

burned. 

4. We must address what the child has the real truth. If you speak 

the teacher scolded and have to go to school and hear the other side, beyond 

witnesses. 

5. Information is different from knowledge. The act of meeting comes after the act of being 

informed of anything. Not everyone knows. Know and do not use condoms 

means that one has no knowledge of the condom provides prevention. 

6. The authority must be shared between parents. Both should have. Can not 

succumb to the wishes of the child. Child does not want to eat? The mother can not feed her. 

The child must wait until the next meal that the family will do. The child does not 

can change the house rules. The mother can not interfere with the rules dictated by 

father (and punishment as well) and vice versa. If the father determines that there will be a 

ride, the mother can not interfere. Must comply on pain of creating 

umdelinquente. 

7. At home they have food, no child dies of hunger. If she wants to eat, you know the 

hours. And it is the adult who has to say WHAT IS THE TIME to eat and what to eat. 

8. The child should be able to explain to parents who had studied the matter and in which 

will be tested. Can not simply repeat, decorated. You have to understand. 

9. We must convey to children the idea that we need to produce as much as 

Can. This is because in life we can not accept the average required by the college, no 

We can give 70% of us, or we can not get 7.0. 

10. The drugs and unwanted pregnancies are high because the teens were 

pursuit of pleasure. And pleasure is inconsequential. 

11. Pregnancy is a biological success and failure in the sexual point of view. 

12. Marijuana has no effect when used alone. Who's sane but 

dependent, to attack the mother to leave home, to make use of the drug. The mother 

must then turn away and not accept the aggression. Can not be discussing and 

trying to dissuade him of the idea. Have to say that not talk with him and ready. 

Should 'leave it'. 

13. The mother is incompetent to 'abandon' the child. If I knew doing so, the child 

assume. How do you know that the mother is always there, not the case. 

14. If the father get angry because his son readied something, should not change the 

voice. Must say you're nervous and therefore does not want discussion to be calm.The 

lull, the parent should say, will come in 2, 3, 4 days. Meanwhile, video game, the 

outputs, the ballad, will remain suspended until he calms down and apply the appropriate punishment. 

15. If the child has not learned winning, losing has to learn. 

16. This can not promise the success that it is his duty. Take good note is 

obligation. There is swearing grandparents obligation. Being polite is required. Pass the entrance exam 

is required. If you won the car after the exam, if he loses badly in 

college. 

17. Who educates child's father and mother. Grandparents can not interfere in the education of the grandson of 

any way. Ever. There is a plausible guess. Never. 

18. Many are unbalanced or crazy. Should be treated. (His words). 

19. If the mother of the child eat crow, he will think that society will have to swallow 

too. 

20. Video games are a danger: parents have to explain how the reality show 

that in real life there are no 'lives', but a single life. You can not die and 

reincarnate. You can not bet it all, push the button to clear the debt. 

21. Teacher has to be a leader. Inspiring leadership. You can not just hit card. 

22. Fathers and mothers can not rely on a child's disability they have. 

'Son, enter it here for me because I can not deal with the computer'. Parents have 

who know how to use Skype, because the world in which the call is free on Skype, it is 

inconceivable to pay to talk with the child who lives far away. 

23. The most common error in the upbringing of the child is put it on top of the house.The son 

can not be a reason to live for a couple. The son is one of the elements. The couple has 

to leave it up to the same level as them. The company will pay the price when 

educated someone is finding himself the center of the universe. 

24. Children are drug addicts who were always on top of the family. 

25. Falling into conversation is to create a marginal child. Son can not go on guess 

adult thing. If he wants to opine on what should be the refrigerator, which will 

show what is the consumption (KWh) of which he appoints. If you want to say how it should be 

new house, has to say about it (his supposed luxuries) will increase spending 

final. 

26. Money 'the rodo'para son is harmful. Even if the parents have, 

need to control spending and to teach. 

Quote: "The mother (or father!) Who takes his son to the church, will not get you in 

chain ... "